Monday January 17, 2005

Passage.

It’s a sad day at the Christensen home.

Over Thanksgiving, our pet rat Butters had what we suspect was a mild stroke. For a while it looked pretty bad, but she actually came through reasonably well. Though she had lost some mobility, her appetite steadily increased and she seemed to be back in the swing of things.

Sunday morning we awoke to find her wheezing, breathing heavily and refusing to eat. In addition, the symptoms that accompanied her suspected stroke returned, and she has had difficulty moving about and staying balanced.

These conditions have forced Jessica and I to make a decision that no pet owner ever wants to make—do we euthanize?

After much thought, we have decided to euthanize. Butters’ previous spark for life is gone and, while I morally oppose human euthanization, this decision seems to be the only humane thing we can do. Having once watched a beloved pet whither away over a prolonged amout of time, I simply don’t think I could allow that to take place again. It is a difficult choice to make.

But Butters has lived a long and joyful life. At a ripe old age of 3 years, she has well fulfilled the average lifespan for a domesticated rat. Since I saved her and her sister from the horrible fate of becoming snake food almost 3 years ago, she has been a gentle companion, little buddy and kind animal. We will miss her.

Even though I have had several pet rats since I was a nine year old kid, it never gets any easier to lose one. A rat may be an unusual pet, but it is a beautiful animal with a unique personality just like any other creature.

Butters’ sister China passed away almost a year and a half ago. We’d like to think that there’s a big Habitrail in the sky, and that China is there waiting for her sister.

As has been our family’s tradition for as long as I can remember, Butters will be buried this evening alongside her sister in a special spot in my parent’s backyard.

Thank you for indulging me in this less than usual entry. No word yet as to whether or not there will be new pets in the near future.

Commentary


Josh Dura » 4657 days ago #

Sorry to hear about the loss Jared. Whether it be a rat or a family member, it’s never easy.

Feaverish » 4657 days ago #

Having a pet die is the worst. I used to have newts; I don’t care how small or dumb they were, it always broke my heart to find one of them had died in the night. I recommend getting a new rat/pet as soon as possible.

Jeff Smith » 4657 days ago #

Sorry to hear Jared. It’s always hard to lose a pet.

Shawn Grimes » 4657 days ago #

I’m really sorry to hear this Jared. Losing something/someone special to you is never an easy time.

Abel Rios » 4657 days ago #

Jared, my condolences to you and yours. This is so sad to hear. As most of us do, we treat our pets with the utmost respect, and caring attention they deserve. No matter at what age, a pet becomes a part of the family immediately.

If only they could last forever. Sadly, they can’t. I still have not been able to swallow the truth yet, and hope that day comes much later for my two cats.

Joshua Rivera » 4656 days ago #

Sad to hear Jared. I still remember when you picked her up.

asd » 4656 days ago #

Ya’ll got to be kidding, right?

Jared » 4656 days ago #

Thanks, guys. I appreciate your concern and empathy.

asd: Consider yourself banned.

Angad » 4656 days ago #

Sad. Yes, you should get a new pet soon. When my dog expired, I felt guilty about getting a new one so soon, but pets become such a big part of your life you just can’t so without them.

asd » 4655 days ago #

Sorry

savenom » 4251 days ago #

soon another day will come and time heals all pain

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